Should I or shouldn't I? A checklist for smart girls

Hey Sugar, Decisions, decisions! Should you say yes? Wait? Move forward? Sometimes, choices feel like trying to pick the right lip gloss—shiny but unpredictable. Been there! I once had to decide: take a gap year or go straight to law school. My heart whispered, Wait. My pride shouted, Girl, go NOW! So I rushed in, only to realize, oops-I wasn’t ready. I made mistakes, fumbled socially, and struggled when I did not have to.

Before making your next big move, run it through this wisdom checklist:

Does it align with God’s Word? (No loopholes, sis.)
✅ What are the obvious consequences? (If it’s messy now, it won’t get cleaner later.)
✅ Will your choice negatively impact someone watching your faith walk?
✅ Can you honestly ask God to bless this decision?
✅ Do you have peace about it? Can you sleep? If not, ask God Why?
✅ Is this the right time? (Even a good thing at the wrong time is wrong.)
✅ Does it fit who you are as a child of God?
✅ Will your decision honor God?
✅ Can you expect God’s reward? (Obedience always brings blessings!)


📖 "Trust in the Lord… submit to Him, and He will make your paths straight."
Proverbs 3:5-6

​Ask God daily for help until you know for sure. The right decision will come with peace, not pressure. It’s a promise, darling! 💫